4 Tips on How to Talk to Girls
Every guy knows that the secret to winning a woman’s heart lies in your ability to talk to girls, but what they probably don’t know is that if you don’t know how to talk to girls in the «RIGHT» way, you are actually better off not talking to her at all.
Now before you go running off scream, relax and don’t worry because I have a solution for you…
Because I’m about to show you 4 fool proof ways on how to talk to girls that will have you talking to girls in no time. And it doesn’t matter if you’re shy, not funny, or you get nervous around beautiful women, you can all use this system.
Smile – Mother Teresa said «We shall never know all the good that a simple smile can do» and she is right. Smile is powerful one of the most important thing that any men should do when approaching ANY women is to smile.
Think about it this way, if your met two girls at the bar and one of them have a wonderful genuine smile when you make eye contact with while the other looks dull and uncaring who would you rather to talk to? Of course the girl that smiles, because smile makes her that much more friendly her, and approachable.
It doesn’t matter if you’re in China, Italy, U. S, or Brazil, a good smile is universal. And it has been proven that people respond way more to your body language than what you actually say. So a good smile can communicate a lot more things about who you are then words can ever do.
And if you approach a beautiful woman with a smile, she will right away assume you’re positive, happy, friendly, and have something good to offer.
So practices smiling everyday as it will bring you many wonderful experiences in life that doesn’t just limit to meeting beautiful women.
Don’t Get Intimidated – When you decide to approach and talk to a women relax. I know this might be hard to do when your heart is pounding 1000 times a second against your chest, and you feel the nervousness creeping up you shoulder but you got to relax.
Girls are walking, talking, lie detectors. They know when a man is not relax or trying to fake that his confident, they can sense it and it shows through your body language. So if you find yourself getting nervous before talking to a girl just takes a few deep breaths, kind of like your puffing out smokes when smoking cigarettes(if you don’t smoke just watch someone who does).
Also know who you are, and what exactly do you want before talking to girls. Because girls hates guys that doesn’t know what they are looking for.
Sense Of Humor – You probably have hear that the whole sense of humor thing is huge is the ladies, and you might even have learned and used a few clever line that you have heard from a T. V show or something.
But, you’re still not getting the type of respond that you want for women and you can’t figure it out. The reason why most guys fail when they trying to learn how to be funny with women is because the focus on the wrong thing.
Most the guys that I know focus on trying to memorize jokes, and trying to be funny. But the problem is women don’t like funny, they like to have fun. When women say they want a sense of humor in a guy they don’t actually want a guy who tells her jokes after jokes to make her life, what they do want is a guy who can have fun with them and be playful. So if have been collecting funny jokes and punch lines, STOP! Instead spent time and develop yourself in to a man who is playful.
Body languages – Like I said before, most of your communication with people is with your body language. So needless to say how important is it to pay attention to having great body languages when communicating with women.
When you talk to a girl it is all about the way you make her feel, the words that are coming out of your month have little to no effect what so ever of her impression of you. The reason is women are more emotional, and the relay way more on their senses to feel how your body languages makes them feel.
So next time you are walking up to approach a girl, pay attention to your body languages. Relax pace yourself, till your head up, and STOP FIDDLING with your hands.