3 Ways to Attract Women with Humor
If you spend any time at all watching those T. V shows or listen radio shows where they get a bunch of women together and ask them what they look for in a man. You probably realize that 9 out 10 women will answer humor.
You might be wonder what’s the point of all this. Well, the point is if humor is such a big thing to women, then wouldn’t it make sense to learn how to use it to attract them? This might sound obvious to you, and it does but here is thing.
Most guys realizes or at least somewhat know that women likes a man with a sense of humor, that’s why when they approach a girl they always try to think of something clever to say. But as the Bruce Lee once said «knowing isn’t enough you must act» and when it comes to attract women with humor you must also act in the right way.
What most guys do when they try to use humor to attract women is that they focus on being funny, and not attractive funny or the type of humor that would make you irresistible with women. Here are 3 ways to attract women with humor.
Pretend She is Hitting on You – Have you ever approach a girl and before you can even say anything she said «are you trying to hit on me?» How did you react to that, you froze and didn’t know what to say and most men probably just «oh, no no, I’m not».
What’s cool about this is that you can actually do the exact same back at them. For example: say you’re out with a girl on a date, and she walks up close to you. You move back a little and look at with a curious look and say «were you just trying to hold my hand? You know you could have just asked I would have let you but since you were being sneaky, I don’t know…»
The girl might not have wanted anything but that’s not the point. The point is to mess with her a little bit, and make her feel attraction towards you. However, you must also learn to do it in the right way, otherwise you’ll just come of ass a weirdo.
Exaggerate – This one is straight for enough, all you have to do is take something normal that she said, or did and blow it out of proportion. For example if you’re out with a girl and she is wearing a hat and you think it looks funny say something like «omg! I can’t believe your wearing that… forget it I’m going out. I can’t be seen with a girl who is wearing that hat…» then shake your head and walk away.
The trick is YOU MUST say it in a joking way, and you must EXAGGERATE everything so that she knows your just joking, otherwise you’ll just look like an arrogant asshole. What you want is to get her to laugh, or pretend to be mad and hit you on the arm. She knows you’re playing and she will go a long with it, and don’t worry most girls are really good at these type of stuff they just get it more than most guys.
Be Childish – Now, I know a lot of dating expert out there would disagree with me on this one, but it works like a charm at least from my experience. So, if you don’t want to try this one fine, but you don’t know what you’re missing.
When I say be childish it doesn’t mean that you have to behave like a 5 year kid and do stupid stuff. What I mean is that there are a lot of things you would do when you were young with your friend or a girl that you can still do now. Here is a good example: if you walking side by side with a girl in the mall reach over to her shoulder that’s not right beside your shoulder and tap on it, and then pretend it wasn’t you.
It’s childish and you probably have done it when you were 10 years old, but it works like a charm. It demonstrates to the women your with that you not like most guys, and you’re confident enough to just let go and have some real fun. The key is to have fun and not come off as overtly goofy or dorky.