3 Tips on How to Attract Women and Keep Them Attracte
Today, I would like to tell you 3 tips on how to attract women that you can easily apply to your life right now. But before we get started, I want to tell you this interesting fact that I pick up the other day while reading the daily newspaper.
Did you know that on average that 50% of all marriages in America end up in a divorce? I was shock, I just couldn’t believe that 50% of all marriages end up in a divorce, that’s 1 out of every 2 marriages get divorced. Wow that sounds crazy… but why is that?
Well, some men blame the women’s movement. They feel that more and more women are self-dependent and no longer need a man to support them and that gives them all the power. While this is true, but it isn’t the only reason why the divorce rate is at an all-time high. It is true that many women now no longer need a man to support them financially, but that doesn’t mean women don’t need men at all.
Ok, so if that isn’t true then why do couples break up so often?
Well, I’m not going to claim to know the ultimate reason to why couples breakup, but after listening to various different couples about their relationship I begin to see a pattern.
From my experience most couples stay together in a long term relationship for 2 reasons, there may be more, but like I said this is what I have gather so far. Couples stay together because they are either deeply attracted to each other, or and more often it is because they are so comfortable with each other and have subtle down with each other.
Most couples aren’t really in love any more. They are no longer attracted to each other sexually. They simply stay together because it is easier than trying to go out and find a better relationship. Or at least until one of them do something to so extreme that the other person just can’t take it anymore, and bam! There is your divorce.
The point to all this is that if you want to have a healthy long term relationship that last, you need to learn not only how to attract women, but how to attract women and keep them attracted to you. So like I promise here are the 3 tips that you can use to keep women attracted to you:
Work on Becoming a Real Men – When you can really hit that spot and become a real man, an independent man who is following his own path. You’ll begin to think differently, you’ll move differently, and you’ll just know exactly what to do in every situation.
But becoming a real man takes time. It isn’t like trying to learn a few pickup lines or routines and pretend you know what you’re doing even though you don’t. Becoming a real man is a way of being, so you cannot simply try and fake it because women can easily spot a man truly gets it, and a man who is trying to fake it. So take your time to become a real man that attracts women naturally and easily by constantly work on yourself.
Keep Her Guessing – If you want to learn how to attract women and not just for a short period of time, than you need to be a little bit mysteries, and keep her guessing. You don’t want to do what most guys do and reveal all your cards right away. That’s boring and you leave nothing for the women to be curious about.
Women don’t want you to tell them everything about yourself right away, they like the mystery and they want to be curious about you because it is fun them. Keep some stuff to yourself, and reveal them slowly, she will be way more excited if they discover them on her own.
Be a Challenge – I have been always fascinated by the fact that women are attract to «jerks» that mistreat them. But I understand now. The reason why women like the so called «jerks» is because they are a challenge, and women love challenges. However, that being said you don’t actually have to be a «jerk» to attract women, you just have to take what works from them and use it yourself, and that is to be a challenge to women.
And the simplest way to be a challenge to women is to tease her.
Say something like «hey hair style, I saw the same her style on an 80’s music video the other day.» The ability to tease a woman shows her that you’re not scared to mess with her, and that you’re different than other men.